Man Kicks Insolent Brother Out Of His Engagement Party For Disrespecting Fiance

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    Font - r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/Engagementx1234 8 hours ago 27 4 S A 11 AITA for kicking my brother out of my engagement party for what he said about my fiancee? I M,31 met my now fiancee at the clinic I work in (I'm a dentist) she works a lower paying job at the clininc. She's the sweetest, nicest, most beautiful woman I've ever met. She's smart, humble and has a beautiful smile. It was a love of first sight for me and I was lucky that she felt the same way about me. I introduced her to my
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    Font - became her best friend instantly. My mom admired her personality and became friends with her mom. But my dad and brother kept their distance and made some pretty hurtful comments about how "incompatible" my fiancee and I were and how I should keep it moving and look for someone "with better background" they never said anything in front of her though. I ignored them completely And tried to protect my fiancee from their snide comments but because mom and others wanted us too visit then we d
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    Font - Last week we had our engagement party at the restaurant, I didn't want my dad or my brother there but my mom told me to let my dad and brother come since my fiance would notice I didn't invite them and ask questions about it. I decided to invite them after mom promised they remain civil and respectful.
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    Font - My family arrived together, my dad remained quiet then started talking with other guests so things were going pretty well. When dinner arrived my brother sat with us at the table asking how much money "I lost" to make this dinner happen then how much my fiancee contributed "at all". My fiancee and I were talking about her engagement ring and my brother randomly started singing "I ain't saying she a gold digger". My fiancee and her mom stared at him and he stopped. I gave him a look as a w
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    Font - Then I got up from my seat to make a toast and my brother interrupted me loudly coughing "prenup" and everyone heard him and stared awkwardly. I was livid I put my drink down and asked him to see me outside. I had an argument with him and told him to leave. He acted dumb about how he behaved and mom got involved. I demander he leave and he did after calling me nuts and mom and dad said I shouldn't have kicked him out. Dad left shortly which made mom say I caused a scene and ruined my own
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    Font - My fiancee was hurt by that but mom said my brother cried because I kicked him out and wants us to meet and talk. My brother is older than me, he's 37 and divorced.
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    Font - lilyintx · 8h Partassipant [1] NTA- how dare they disrespect your fiancé, that is crossing the line. I do believe your Dad and brother must talk about their dislike for her A LOT if he had the balls to embarrass you and her at your own party. He deserved to get kicked out and you shouldn't feel bad about it at all, nor would I even worry about meeting up with them.
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    Font - MightyThorgasm · 7h "My brother is older than me, he's 37 and divorced" Divorced?? You don't say... Couldn't for the life of me figure out why..a real goshdarn mystery NTA
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    Font - Kennytime · 7h Partassipant [1] NTA. 'my brother cried' That's what happens when you play stupid games - you win stupid prizes. Or in this case, the consequences of his own action. If he doesn't want to act like an adult, then he has no place at adult gatherings.
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    Rectangle - darcie33 · 8h Asshole Aficionado [18] NTA. How did you ruin the dinner when it was your brother who was being an AH? You and your fiancé were the victims, not the problem. Unless your brother apologizes profusely I wouldn't invite him to the wedding since it sounds likely he would ruin that, too.

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